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WHEN WE WANT CHANGE IN OUR LIVES, WE HAVE TO BE THE CHANGE IN OUR LIVES. EVERYTHING STARTS AND ENDS WITH US - NEVER FORGET THAT.
Cici.B
AUTHOR & INTERNET BIG SIS.
My name is Cici.B, but most people just call me, B. I'm thirty-nine years young, have been through a lot, but I've also put myself through a lot, and one day I got sick and tired of my own shit...and that's the day when change started happening.
I stopped lying to myself and started getting painfully honest with myself, but it was only painful because I had been lying to myself for so long. About ten years ago now, give or take, I started writing books about my journey through toxic relationships - how I got out of them, then stayed out of them by building a healthy relationship with myself.
My mission?
To help women gain the courage to face their own behaviours/actions by giving them the same tools that I used, because the reality is: toxic, shitty, bare-minimum men isn't your issue - that's just something too many women have been telling one another for far too long.
The real issue is the unwillingness to look in the mirror and ask the woman staring back you, "Why do you chase after, then attach yourself to the type of men you know aren't good for you?"
If you're not ready to face your own behaviour/actions, and you're sensitive to honesty, I'll tell ya right now this is not the space for you to be. I don't sugarcoat shit for myself, so I'm not doing it for anyone else.
Like I always say: Imagine being more offended by another woman being honest with you, telling you the truth, than you are by the man, or men who lie to you every day and treat you like shit?
Food for thought.
Finish your plate.
YOU WILL STOP SETTLING FOR HALF-ASS MEN WHEN YOU START SHOWING UP IN YOUR OWN LIFE AS A CONFIDENT, WHOLE WOMAN.
YOU'LL GLOW DIFFERENTLY ONCE YOU HEAL THE PARTS OF YOU THAT ACCEPT THE BARE MINIMUM, GIRL.
DEALING WITH THE RAW EMOTIONS OF A BETRAYAL AND BREAK-UP?
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.
WANT TO READ SOMETHING THAT COMBINES HEALING WITH GOOD FRIENDS?
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.
IN OR HEALING FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.
ON YOUR SELF-LOVE JOURNEY?
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.
IS YOUR DATING LIFE A SHITSHOW?
THIS WORKBOOK IS FOR YOU.
NEED HELP WITH YOUR INNER WORK?
THIS WORKBOOK IS FOR YOU.
ALWAYS IN TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS?
THIS WORKBOOK IS FOR YOU.
F.A.Q's
ABOUT BOOKS:
"What order should I read your books in?"
My books can be read in any order, however, Letters to My Ex was the first book I ever wrote, and Blush was written as its follow up.
For the Sis, Get Your Sh*t Together Journals: I highly recommend starting with the first one, then doing the Struggle-Love Edition.
"Can I gift your Ebooks to a friend?"
Yes! Absolutely. All you need is their email address (please make sure it's an email that works), and at checkout click "yes" next to the line that asks "Is this order a gift?" Just be sure to enter their email address correctly.
"Are your books about your life?"
Yes, all of my books are stories about things I've been through, put myself through, and have overcome in my own life.
